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R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors

Hailsham

About our Hailsham funeral home

When in need of support and guidance, following the loss of somebody special, R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors in Hailsham is here for you. Adhering to the highest of standards, you can place your trust in us to arrange a heartfelt and meaningful funeral for your loved one.

Helping to make a difficult time a little easier, our caring professionals are available to ensure you can remember your loved one in the way you want. You will be treated with compassion and respect at all times, as we provide advice and help you to make the decisions that will shape the funeral.

As part of the National Association of Funeral Directors (NAFD), we abide by a strict code of practice. You can rest assured that your loved one will be cared for with absolute integrity and that their send off will run smoothly and according to your wishes.

You can find our funeral home on Station Road, at the junction with South Road, and our location close to the centre of town makes us accessible to the whole of Hailsham. We are also able to serve families from our neighbouring communities in the Wealden district, such as Heathfield, Polegate and Uckfield.

Our funeral directors has been a part of East Sussex since 1809, so you can rest assured that you and your loved one will be in safe and experienced hands.

There will be somebody ready to listen, 24 hours. To arrange a funeral,

What we offer

  • Advice and guidance at every step, including registering the death
  • Arrangements that are tailored to meet your family's needs
  • Local expertise and knowledge
  • Cremation or burial at any local crematorium or burial site
  • Funeral services of all faiths and cultures
  • Viewing of the deceased in the chapel of rest
  • Hearses, funeral vehicles and bespoke transport options
  • Memorials and tributes
  • Prepaid funeral plans

To arrange a funeral for your loved one, please call our funeral home on 01323 840086 today.

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Funeral Services with distinction

We are proud to be part of Dignity Funerals, a collection of the UKs finest funeral directors, with each and every one committed to setting superior standards.

Many Dignity funeral directors have been part of the local community for generations and it is a privilege to serve those who live beside us. Our rich and lengthy heritage ensures we can deliver our service with local knowledge and unparalleled expertise.

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Our services

With two packages available, we will be able to arrange the funeral you have in mind for your loved one.

If you’re looking for a traditional or contemporary funeral with a service, you should consider our Attended Funeral. If you want us to arrange a simple cremation without mourners present, our Unattended Funeral may better suit your needs.

View our Standardised Price List, Additional Options Price List and Crematoria Price List.

A tailored funeral

The Attended Funeral

Our Attended Funeral includes care of your loved one, a Park Coffin, a service at the place of committal which can be personalised as required for your loved one, followed by a burial or cremation.

  • Attended Funeral £2695
  • (includes our Park Coffin)£-
  • Plus estimated third party costs for cost of cremation and attendance of a celebrant or minister£1134
  • Total estimated cost excluding optional extras£3829
The estimated costs shown are for cremation only. Please call us if you would like to discuss a burial.
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The Unattended Funeral

Our Unattended Funeral will best suit your needs if you want to arrange a simple and straightforward cremation without a service or ceremony, allowing you and your loved one's friends and family to commemorate them in your own way.

  • Unattended Funeral £1595
  • (includes our Park Coffin)£-
  • (Includes cost of cremation)£-
  • Total estimated cost excluding optional extras£1595
The estimated costs shown are for an unattended cremation. Please call us if you would like to discuss a burial.
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Memorials

Choose from a variety of options, including headstones and urns to memorial plaques, vases, statues, jewellery and plenty more. With a Memorial, you can create a tribute that especially reflects the life, love and cherished memories of your loved one.

Where to find us

Contact

Speak to our team 24 hours a day on 01323 840086

Our Address

5-7 Station Road, Hailsham, BN27 2BE

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Funeral home opening times

  • Monday0900 - 1700
  • Tuesday0900 - 1700
  • Wednesday0900 - 1700
  • Thursday0900 - 1700
  • Friday0900 - 1700
  • SaturdayClosed
  • SundayClosed

Directions and parking

Please use South Road car park (free parking).

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Supporting you along the way

We understand that there is a lot to think about, so if you do need assistance with your loved one's funeral arrangements, our funeral experts will offer you all the support you need.

What to do when someone dies

What to do when someone dies

It’s perfectly normal to be unsure of what you need to do following the death of a loved one. These step-by-step guides will carefully explain everything you need to when someone dies, helping you through each stage of the process.

Planning a funeral

Planning a funeral

Our guides on planning a funeral will ensure your loved one's send off is a personal and unique celebration of their life. We will explain how our Funeral Directors will help you plan a funeral service and support you at every stage.

The day of the funeral

The day of the funeral

This guide will explain what happens at a funeral; including the funeral procession, funeral service, committal service and the wake. We will be here to help you through every step of the journey.

Frequently asked questions

When someone dies, the first steps will depend on how and where the person passed away. Our step-by-step guides will walk you through the practical steps. For additional support and personal advice, please get in touch with us.

You don't have to make an appointment at our funeral homes. However, doing so will ensure that someone can be available to cater to your needs. When arranging a funeral, our Funeral Directors are happy to visit you in your own home, if required.

Third party funeral costs are additional charges which we will manage for you and attach to your single invoice. Get in touch with us to confirm costs and plan a funeral to fit your budget.

If you choose to arrange the funeral with us, you will be given the option of a complimentary Funeral Notice. We will set it up for you using the details discussed during the arrangements. All we need is an email address.

Dignity Funeral Plans let you pay for your funeral in advance and at today's price. It's a way of taking control of the unexpected, setting out the arrangements and limiting the costs by paying for the services included in the funeral plan upfront.

We are a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and as such we abide by The Funeral Director Code. We also have a legal obligation to try and ensure the person who is arranging a funeral has the right to do so, or has permission from those who do.

If you are aware that someone has been appointed as the administrator, you should only arrange the funeral with this person's agreement.

If there is no Will or Letters of Administration, then the responsibility would pass to the next of kin.

A Memorial is a way of creating a lasting memory to help remember a loved one.

Dignity has been established for over 200 years and is one of the UK's leading providers of Funerals and with an 'Excellent' Trustpilot rating (02/24). We are proud to help our customers every year with a diverse range of Memorial products and services to help remember their loved ones.

We offer a wide range of products – from traditional headstones, kerb sets, urns and benches to remembrance trees, plaques and vases. We also offer more personal and modern options such as jewellery, pin badges and photo related memorial products. As well as completely customised items.To organise your Memorial contact us on {{BRANCH_PHONE}}

From 9 September 2024, there will no longer be a doctor's fee in England and Wales when arranging a funeral. This is because from this date, all deaths in England and Wales will be independently viewed, either by a relevant coroner or by a Medical Examiner and the cost will be met by the NHS.

A Medical Examiner is a specifically trained independent senior doctor who will scrutinise all deaths across a local area that do not fall under the coroner's jurisdiction. By providing a greater level of scrutiny over the cause of deaths; it is hoped that the introduction of Medical Examiners will make it less likely that unnatural causes of death will go unnoticed; that the number of deaths unnecessarily referred to the coroner will be reduced and that national data about causes of death will be captured with greater accuracy.

Medical Examiners, or Medical Examiner Officers, will also be available to meet with families, or their representatives, if they wish to discuss the cause of death.

Our reviews

4.87
based on 45 reviews
Joy Trenchard
9th Jan 2025

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Sally Harvey (clientrelations@dignityuk.co.uk)
10th Jan 2025

Thank you for taking the time to leave your review. We are sorry that you were unhappy with the service that you received and would be grateful if you could contact our Client Relations Department, to discuss your concerns further on 0800 783 7171 between the hours of 8.45 a.m. and 5.00 p.m.

Angela sayers
27th Jul 2024

Happy to recommend to others that have sadly had someone close die, Butlers is a Brilliant friendly and compassionate service with attention to detail, Thank you 🙏

Terminatorlx Death
7th Jun 2023

I just wanted to say a very special thank you to Caroline for making Nan's service today so special, you must meet so many families but your care, kind words, and nature made us feel like we mattered, like nan mattered more than anything. I hope many other families get to have you share their sad occasion so that they can feel that personal touch and dedication, once again thank you Caroline from me snd mum xx Paula xx

Mr David M.
22nd Mar 2023

From the moment we informed Buttlers of my fathers passing we were treated with compassion, dignity & respect.

Kept informed of our options & the process throughout the funeral planning.

Special thanks to both Caroline & Carol during this very emotional time for our family.

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R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors
22nd Mar 2023

I am glad that we were able to provide you with the dignity and respect needed at this time. We pride ourselves in maintaining the highest quality of care for our families. Your comments will provide great encouragement to the team to keep doing their job to the best of their ability.

Mrs Victoria S.
21st Mar 2023

Butler were chosen by Sheila as they had conducted the funerals of both her Mother and Father, and she was very pleased with this. Sheila was housebound, and the lady from Butler [Shirley - since retired] came to her house and Sheila discussed her funeral arrangements in detail with her, and what her wishes were regarding the service - every little detail like choosing the type and colour of the flowers and if the music was going to be instrumental or lyrics, and the route to the cemetery. Sheila and I then discussed this further between ourselves, which I typed up and forwarded to Butler. Before the funeral day Carol phoned me to check that everything was as Sheila requested and on the day everything was carried out to the letter - they did Sheila proud. On the day of the funeral we arrived early and it was a very cold day - Carol made us a cup of coffee and she and Kevin chatted to us and made us feel calm - they have this knack of making you feel looked after, that nothing is too much trouble, and really listening to you and hearing what you say - and I have no hesitation in highly recommending their service.

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R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors
22nd Mar 2023

I am glad that the final wishes for your loved one were carried out to the highest standard. We are incredibly grateful that you took the time to leave us this review. We are thankful to the team for making your special day so personal.

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